As I have gotten older, birthdays have become for me a time of intense self- reflection: what have I done so far in my life, do I have loyal friends, do I love my job, am I happy with the way my life is going… with one word: birthdays have become a point in my life when I am questioning myself what have I learned from the previous year of my life.
Before I share my thoughts on this subject I would like to start by saying thank you for all your wonderful Birthday wishes! Words can’t describe how much they mean to me! This is actually a third birthday we celebrate together, so thank you so much again for being so faithful, kind and supportive.
Here are some thoughts (resolutions) that I would like to share with you:
Take your time to decide what you want to be and where you want to go. Take your time and dedicate to something that fulfills you. Trust me it’s not good when you are wasting your time on things that doesn’t give you joy and happiness in your life.
Grab some new opportunities. And dare to take the risk. So just do it! Even if it scares the hell out of you. The world belongs to those who take risks.
Love your friends. As you get older, it’s more difficult to hang out with your friends: they move away, start families, they get involved in their careers, and suddenly you have lost communication with them. If you really love your friends, be sure to spend every free minute with them and don’t be afraid to say that you love them. This is a relationship that last longer than any love relationship, so you have to nourish it.
Be happy and stop complaining. No one else is responsible for your happiness but yourself. If the things are bad, don’t blame anyone else, it’s up to you. Happiness reflects from your decisions and your everyday actions. That is the reason you should always try to change your actions to get better and happier reaction.
Love yourself the way you are. There is nothing more annoying than wanting to look, or be like someone else. You need to learn your strengths and focus on how that makes you beautiful and unique. Once you accept yourself the way you are, you can go stronger in the future, till you become a confident person. Now that’s a beautiful spirit right?!
Now I have another 12 months to figure out what to do with these resolutions.
My birthday outfit:
Pictures taken by: Dimitar Atanasov
Make up by: Pepika Jovanova
Styling by: MissUrbanVibe
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